Love in the Age of Arthritis
I see you through dimmed eyes.
You hear me through deaf ears.
And sometimes- you take photos
to show me the world I would otherwise miss.
And sometimes- I teach you the signs
I love you
For when the hour is late, and pillow talk is hard.
Also
Bullshit
Asshole
and
Fuck
For instances that we might want to be more colorful.
Or maybe just to give our waitress a laugh.
(...and it seems to work...it is amazing what they will let you get away with when you’re old...)
You knew me when I wore a size five, and could still walk.
I knew you when your beard and hair were black.
Now we have children-and grandchildren and great grands.
Appointments, schedules and lives that make Our Time
something we must steal.
Carve out.
Plan.
And stealing the time
makes it all the sweeter somehow.
Like taking a break from Life
and all that entails.
Just Us.
Besides
We both have ghosts
in our beds.
And 4 is a crowd.
You love me Muchly.
And I love you so Bigly.
We may have not been each other’s
FIRST LOVE
but we may well be
THE LAST
And that is somehow PERFECT.
You touch me with gentle hands.
I kiss you with tender lips.
Everything slower now.
More deliberate.
More sensual.
Sexy.
Despite the Stiffening Joints
Graying Hair
or Leg Cramps.
We’re as good ONCE
(...as the country and western singer croons…)
as we ever were.
And sometimes even Twice.
Seconds.
Neither of us
were looking.
Neither of us
ever expected.
But here we are-
just the same.
Love in the Age of Arthritis.
Poetry
Tuesday, February 12, 2019
Thursday, February 2, 2017
Collecting
Collecting the World
One Stone at a Time
That is what I like to call it.
In Reality it was always
so much more.
A hobby for children
you might think.
Let me explain as best I can.
Things come and go
Stones are much more permanent.
Although they, too, wear away
given enough time.
Our time measured in Decades
Their's in Millenniums.
You can toss one in the rubbish bin
have it carted away to a landfill
to be buried
and a hundred years later, when it is dug up
or exposed by the elements
It is still just a Rock.
Ready to slip into a pocket or
be lugged home to decorate the flowerbed.
Ready to be someone else's memory marker.
I like that.
A lot.
Attached to each one of mine
The Memories.
A hand sized white stone
flattened and worn smooth by the surf is
A morning walk along the beach
listening to the gulls and sea-lions calls
the waves crash
at Big Sur, California.
Jacket on, and hands in my pockets,
still chilly in July.
A chunk of Rose Granite
as big as a baby's head
blasted from the still emerging face
of an Indian Warrior Memorial
in South Dakota
Where I stood with my sons in the 90 degree heat
marveling at the sight of something
I first saw in my Weekly Reader
when I was still a child
and it was still just a mountain,
and an idea.
A Boulder
prised from a mountain road-wall
somewhere in Nevada between the State Line
and Ely
Highway 50- America's Loneliest Road.
It must weigh 35 pounds.
Helping my late husband dig it loose
then watching as he hefted it into the back of our van
as he jokingly commented
"After this trip, we will need new shocks, you know."
17 States that Summer
and oh-so-many stones.
Collecting The World
is not limited to rocks.
There are also fossils and shells.
And even a bit of a Meteorite and a tiny black diamond-
purchased, of course...like
my chunk of The Berlin Wall
Seafoam green graffiti and all
bought soon after it fell.
"Mr Gorbachev, tear down this wall."
A bit of Space.
Of Stardust.
A Chunk of History.
I'm still waiting for a piece of The Great Wall of China.
Watching eBay every week.
A Spiral of a Whelk Shell
from a beach in Bradenton, Florida
that still tastes of salt...even after all these years.
While our three boys
played like seals in the wave-wash
we sat nearby on beach-towels
spread in the soft sand
playing guitar, singing and serenading the seagulls
having both just discovered
Robert Bradley's Blackwater Surprise
"Once Upon a Time"
The birds appreciative critics
as long as the crackers and chips held out.
A Corner of a Red Street Brick
dug by my youngest son who noticed it was broken
and presented to me like Pure Gold
during a solo trip by both of us
to Savannah, Georgia.
Laughing like fools
when a local tried to give us directions to Forsythia Park
but when she opened her mouth
the voice was the Voodoo Witch
from Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil
"And don'cha DARE look back!"
Indeed.
I could tell you about
the Bedstone
from Cumberland Falls, Kentucky
remembering a time in 1965
when I sat on one of the flat river rocks
like a young otter sunning myself
with my Grandpa
The cold river water rushing over
both of our bare legs
and later bringing my own children back to the same spot.
Bringing home the smooth clay-turned-to-rock stone.
Or what a Moon-bow looks like
through the mist of The Falls.
Some are picked up
and brought
by friends or family.
A chunk pried from
(I could not make this up)
a Mayan Ruin in Belize
by a friend on holiday there.
Asking her
"Isn't that illegal as hell?"
and her reply
"Not if they don't CATCH you."
A smooth zebra-striped black and white
rock from Tuscany
by another.
Several wave-ground stones
from a beach in Crete.
A bigger than my hand
wave-washed stone
from Aberdeen, Scotland.
A huge river rock
fished out by my Grand Daughter
and brought to me on Mother's Day one year
"I have a surprise for you, Grandma Rose"
So no...
It isn't just collecting rocks.
It is a collection of My Life.
Monday, July 18, 2016
Live
Enter the Carnival.
Ride all the Rides.
Don't hold on to your Tickets.
Tomorrow they'll be Useless.
Taste the Caramel Apples.
Popcorn, Sno-Cones and Sugar Floss.
Take Big Bites.
Let the Grape Syrup Drip Down Your Chin.
Step Right Up.
Life is For The LIVING.
LIVE.
Winter Across America ( A True Story)
In Indiana we have had inches. It has been beautiful.
In Minnesota, my good friend Gail reminds me it is 52 days until Spring.
And that she is so over winter.
In Pennsylvania, my friends Mike and Gail are busy shoveling out their cars.
Buried bumper deep.
In Virginia, my buddy Randy is STILL clearing the drive.
It has been 2 days.
In New York, my friend Ann (and her daughter) have advised us
after the snow-plow went through they can't FIND their little blue sub-compact.
In Tampa they had a heavy frost...
My friend Vicki assures me not to worry...they WILL dig out, somehow!
In Minnesota, my good friend Gail reminds me it is 52 days until Spring.
And that she is so over winter.
In Pennsylvania, my friends Mike and Gail are busy shoveling out their cars.
Buried bumper deep.
In Virginia, my buddy Randy is STILL clearing the drive.
It has been 2 days.
In New York, my friend Ann (and her daughter) have advised us
after the snow-plow went through they can't FIND their little blue sub-compact.
In Tampa they had a heavy frost...
My friend Vicki assures me not to worry...they WILL dig out, somehow!
Orlando 2016
Silence
seems the only response
for a World Gone Mad
until I realize
that Our Silence
is often taken for
Mute Assent.
So today I
will Scream
so loudly that
Everyone can hear.
How, while we worried
about hypothetical monsters
stalking Target rest-rooms
attacking our children,
A Real Monster
slipped into Club Pulse
and killed 48 of them.
seems the only response
for a World Gone Mad
until I realize
that Our Silence
is often taken for
Mute Assent.
So today I
will Scream
so loudly that
Everyone can hear.
How, while we worried
about hypothetical monsters
stalking Target rest-rooms
attacking our children,
A Real Monster
slipped into Club Pulse
and killed 48 of them.
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years ago, in Danville.
It used to be called Patches.
It is long since gone.
I looked for it once
when I was out chasing memories.
The place was basically
a hallway with a long bar down one side
and this postage stamp sized dance floor.
Riding (well holding on, anyway)
a motorcycle with a friend
when a storm blew in.
Best steak dinner I ever ate
and slow dancing together to Ronnie Milsap's
"Lost in the 50's, Tonight"
Still slightly damp
from the soaking we got in the rain.
Him, smelling a lot like leather and cigarettes.
My long hair a tangle beneath his hand.
It has been a lot of years
but I still have the smile
he gave me
that night.